I remember early in the planning stages of the Learning Pastoral Imagination (LPI) Project that Chris Scharen and I had several thoughtful conversations about whether or not self-reflection was essential for a robust pastoral imagination. My training in pastoral theology, care, and counseling, had me pretty convinced that it was a crucial, it not universal, component of pastoral practice.
As I recall, Chris was not so certain. In the 10 intervening years, my thoughts about self-reflection and ministry have only solidified. In these years, I cannot recall an instance of wise pastoral practice or a person of whom I would say, now they really just exercised some profound pastoral imagination, that did not include the minister’s very credible ability to be self-reflective.
This week’s 3MMM story reaches further back into my training to one of my first seminary teaching opportunities. I brought my own pastoral sensibilities into a teachable moment with Jake. And I tried to help him turn his complaints into an opportunity for some self-reflection.
Now, I want to be clear, self reflection is not self indulgence. It is not self-preoccupation. Nor is it selfish. Self reflection, when you are trying to cultivate the practice of ministry, is a crucial element of shifting self-preoccupied worries (i.e. how am I doing?) into the background of one’s thinking. That shift is at once a greater self awareness and also a greater opportunity to pay attention carefully to the people and situations right in front of you.
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